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Welcome to Stand Alone's podcast! We hear from people who are estranged from parents, children, grandchildren and siblings - who have told Jay, our host, their stories. We also hear from Becca, Stand Alone's founder and CEO, and Jonathon, our support group leader in Edinburgh who will be talking to Jay through each episode.
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Tuesday Jan 14, 2020
Blair
Tuesday Jan 14, 2020
Tuesday Jan 14, 2020
Welcome to Stand Alone's podcast! Meet Blair - a University student who has been speaking in Scottish Parliament in partnership with Stand Alone on the issues of estrangement, and how it effects people in higher education.
"He's a really inspiration speaker, and has a really clear steer on the inequality of not offering equal support to people who have experienced similar things to those in the care system, who haven't been picked up by that system." - Becca Bland, Stand Alone's founder and CEO.
At the age of 14, Blair came out as gay to his mother - who, religious in a very traditional sense, wasn’t as warmly receptive as Blair had hoped for, and persuaded him to hide his sexuality. Blair’s mental health deteriorated, until he was able to move away from the family home.
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I found this really wise and impactful. I grew up with physical and emotional abuse which led to profound (often ridiculed and misunderstood) mental health problems. I got through uni under the old grant system (I was lucky) my parents contributed nothing to my education. Contact was thorny and intermittent. I now have no meaningful relationship with them and my homophobic brother (I'm bisexual). I was like a care leaver when I got to uni. I was emotionally underdeveloped, vulnerable and traumatised. I salute you sir and all of the amazing work you are doing! 💜
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